First dating message template
Well, it’s not good, as these are all huge turn-offs and tend to make a terrible first impression. “Ur,” “u,” “wat,” and “wont” likely won’t get you any replies.
Your first message should be sweetly simple and stay short.
Correctly written but otherwise everyday words such as “don’t” and “won’t” (notice they include the appropriate apostrophe) have nicely above average response rates of 36% and 37%. In this case, the “no netspeak” rule isn’t set in stone, since expressions of amusement are in fact accepted.
Go ahead and use “haha” and “lol” as you please, because both turned out in the sender’s favor with 45% and 41% reply rates.
Express your interest in their profile, and add in a question or two about things you share in common.
A long message with many lines or paragraphs is too much and can overwhelm and turn the receiver (if they even finish reading it all).